We all have anger. Fairly a common statement coming from someone who walked about with anger for a long time. Do we all have anger? Truly?

 Ok we get angry often but do we ‘have’ anger? All of us? I don’t feel so. If we did and if anger is a poor thing then do we have to accept it as who we are and then pass it on to our children?

 I am talking here to you about internal anger. The anger we carry about. The cancer of the soul that manifests in our body eventually. When your soul cries out and you ignore the cry, then the soul ultimately talks by means of your body in all kinds of illnesses.

How did we invent this anger? How does it come about?

We live in a society that claims to know it all. Yes we have all the answers. Nicely fantastic. Then we ought to be best right? No difficulty does not have a answer. We have them all. Then what about the difficulty of not solving our difficulties when we have the solutions?

What is anger actually?

Anger is what we were born with. It is a really potent tool  that we have for manifesting our reality. If we know how to use it we can produce real magic and miracles for ourselves. Anger is expressing who we are and what we want with intent. It is the driving power of intent. Just as we can summon any quantity of love we choose, we can also summon any amount of anger we pick. We use that anger to get issues done. To say what we feel wants to be stated. To let ourselves out in some form of expression of who we are. It does not necessarily have to be violent but it is effective. Because we do not know that and our parents by no means knew how to teach us that, anger became a really poor factor in our society.

 In a sense you can say that anger is the power of expression. So when you get angry then ask your self? What is it that I want to say or do? What is the end result here? Where do I aim to go with this feeling? Then you let it out. See in your angry mind the outcome you would like to have. Then manifest it in your mind with anger and in your physical globe begin working on a systematic approach to bring that about. Anger drives you into action like a burst of power. Use that energy to do what needs to be done. But behind all of this remains your loving self. The actual you. Observing your self obtaining angry and going about it in the greatest way you can come up with.

 Anger really should spur you into motion. When you really feel it coming up use it. Give it positive directions. Pick a direction that would bring a desired result. Move toward a remedy. Use it as the driving force behind your intention to solve a circumstance in a correct manner. Topple the apple cart and rearrange the apples.

 What to teach our youngsters.

Our youngsters need to know that anger is allowed. They have this power like we do and they do not know how to let it out. We want to teach them how to use this power instead of just exploding. Like a Chernobyl reaction plant we can bottle the power up and explode or we can let the energy flow and nurture the world about us. The planet is moving forward. If we bring our youngsters up the very same way we had been bought up then we are going to have a family of retards who got stuck in the past although life moved on. They want to discover to channel their anger into constructive solutions. They need to have to live out their anger within a framework of what is allowed and what not. So what do we allow? That is the key.

We grew up like small Chernobyl nuclear power plants. Not allowed to express anything at all and then exploding from time to time and causing wonderful havoc and injury. We need to have to enlighten on that in a constructive manner. So the question is.  What do we allow and what not? I believe that, that is where parenting comes in. Our kids hit the road running and they are going to continue running no matter whether we like it or not. The only thing we can do is to direct their course. To guide them in the correct direction so they do not run into other men and women and obstacles. But telling them not to run is futile.

What do we want for our kids and how are we going to get that for them? Discipline is good. But mindless discipline? Our kids are not stupid. “Because I say so.” does not cut it anymore. We cannot put them on hold and we can not pause them anymore. We cannot shop them or put them away until we have time for them. We can discipline them to respond to becoming put on hold with sense. We can explain to them that the time they chose is not a excellent 1 and that they will have to learn to wait until we are ready to deal with them. Then it is not mindless anymore. Then they know they are not dealing with outright rejection but rather poor timing.

Then it moves on to our own discipline to live up to our promises. If we stated later then when? If we don’t live up to our promises we teach them betrayal. How can we anticipate them to trust us when we let them down by not living up to our promises? What are we teaching them through example?

Honesty coupled with discipline is the most effective combination in self realization. You can only function on actual issues. If you produce imaginary reasons for getting who you are, you will never get to the bottom of  it. First you lie to others until lying becomes such a habit that you begin lying to yourself in order to steer clear of being responsible for who you are. Then you start off believing those lies.

Then one day you wake up and say “what the hell is going on?” “ Why is my life not working out for me?” Then you commence fixing the issue. Oh yes the difficulty. Ha ha. The lie you mean. Simply because the real issue lies buried beneath a complete lot of myths we produced to justify our bad behaviour.

Soon after a couple of years of  working on the lies we maintain asking ourselves. “When is this enough?” “I keep working on myself and my life to fix problems but it’s not acquiring me anywhere.” Hopefully you wake up to the large lie and uncover the genuine problem to work on and get some genuine outcomes before you die.

Do we want this for our kids? Do we want them to be happy or do we want them to run about attempting to fix ghosts in futility? Do we want them to Tippex the personal computer monitor or do we want them to discover how a computer works?

Honesty is not just reality. Honesty is also doing what you said you would do simply because if you don’t do it then you prove that you lied. Teaching your children that integrity is not all that critical.